– DRAWN FROM LIFE –
some barrier of custom,’ he opens an essay entitled ‘The Custom of Wearing Clothing’. The endless examples he gives of outlandishly different traditions in different times and climes are all quietly aimed at eroding the intimidating pressure of present custom.
How to be free, then, and enjoy life in a world that demands so much of us? On his thirty-eighth birthday, six years after Étienne de la Boétie’s death and shortly after a near-death experience of his own following a collision on horseback, Montaigne had these words painted on a wall in his home:
In the year of Christ 1571 . . . Michel de Montaigne, long weary of the servitude of the court and of public employments, while still entire retired to the bosom of the learned Virgins, where in calm and freedom from all cares he will spend what little remains of his life now more than half run out.
Retirement. Shun obligation. Shun passion. Once you are in something, it is hard to get out. ‘I find that the remedy which works for me is, from the outset, to purchase my freedom at the cheapest price I can get . . . With very little effort I stop the first movement of my emotions, giving up whatever begins to weigh on me before it bears me off.’ In his house, all customary etiquette was waived; family members were not obliged to exchange tedious pleasantries. Murals of famous battles and ships in stormy seas reminded Montaigne of the dangers he had renounced. Meantime, he retired xiv